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Title: R.I.P. Tammy
Post by: weazletoe on August 13, 2021, 09:04:33 pm
  It hurts me beyond words to say that Thursday, August 12th at 7:30 a.m. Mrs Weaze took her final breath after a hard fight with blood cancer. Things were looking good for a while there. The cancer itself had been cured. However, due to her weakened immune system she developed pneumonia. She was placed in the ICU on a ventilator for some days until she was able to breathe on her own. She was extubated and and sent back to the bone marrow transplant floor after not quite a week. Her body had been through too much, she was too tired and too much damage had been done from the pneumonia. My little girl, step girl, will be 14 on labor day. We are bonding closer every day and will strengthen each other to carry on. There will be bad days, good days, and really bad days. But I'm so glad we have each other.
  R.I.P. My beautiful Tammy. I will love you fir the rest of my life.
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Post by: BrewBama on August 13, 2021, 09:30:19 pm
I am truly sorry to hear this.  RIP



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Post by: tommymorris on August 14, 2021, 04:04:50 am
I am sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Bob357 on August 14, 2021, 06:45:48 am
So sorry to hear. I'm sure she's in a better place now.
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Post by: Megary on August 14, 2021, 07:05:33 am
Very very sorry.  All the best to you and your girl.
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Post by: dmtaylor on August 14, 2021, 07:54:55 am
I'm so sorry to hear this.  I pray for you all to find peace.
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Post by: denny on August 14, 2021, 08:45:29 am
Barry, I am so sorry.  I know what a huge difference she made in your life.  My thoughts are with you and your daughter.
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Post by: 69franx on August 14, 2021, 10:47:42 am
So sorry to hear this. May you find peace

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Post by: hopfenundmalz on August 14, 2021, 10:52:48 am
Very sorry Barry.
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Post by: Steve Ruch on August 14, 2021, 11:48:55 am
So very sad to hear.
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Post by: pete b on August 14, 2021, 12:12:01 pm
So sorry to hear this, peace to you and your family.
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Post by: mchrispen on August 14, 2021, 12:19:21 pm
That’s awful. So sorry mate.


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Post by: majorvices on August 14, 2021, 12:59:14 pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts to you and your family.
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Post by: erockrph on August 14, 2021, 04:16:26 pm
Sorry for your loss. I'll be raising a pint in memory tonight.

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Post by: MDixon on August 14, 2021, 04:50:51 pm
Thinking of you and your family.
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Post by: Slowbrew on August 20, 2021, 03:52:34 pm
I missed this somehow last week, so I'm late...

That said, I am so sorry to read this.  Your note concerning her miraculous fight to find treatment and then beat all those odds was such a breath of fresh air.  My wife and I were so happy for yoi/your family.

She and you fought a huge battle and got so close to a fairy tale ending.  We hope you can find peace and help your daughter find her way too.  Big loses are best handled buy the strongest people.  I'm sure you will find joy again.  Take time often to remember her and the good things that brought you together.  The pain will fade and the good memories will survive.

Paul

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Post by: boulderbrewer on August 25, 2021, 07:15:11 am
Sorry, .....
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Post by: weazletoe on August 30, 2021, 07:12:44 pm
Thanks for the support and kind words, guys. Bend dealing with a lot. Day she died, my dad went in the ER and is still in there hospital then I came home only too have to put my mom in a nursing home. Then a bit of a fight with my sister-in-law over custody of my daughter. Mix in the a great trip from Georgia, to Ohio then too Ft Myers to lay Tammy's ashes too rest on the beach then back to Ohio.
 Today, I got letter in the mail from my late wife. That's the kind of women she was. She planned this out a year ago, just in case. All to comfort and help heal me. She truly was amazing.
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Post by: weazletoe on August 30, 2021, 07:13:25 pm
Thanks for the support and kind words, guys. Bend dealing with a lot. Day she died, my dad went in the ER and is still in there hospital then I came home only too have to put my mom in a nursing home. Then a bit of a fight with my sister-in-law over custody of my daughter. Mix in the a great trip from Georgia, to Ohio then too Ft Myers to lay Tammy's ashes too rest on the beach then back to Ohio.
 Today, I got letter in the mail from my late wife. That's the kind of women she was. She planned this out a year ago, just in case. All to comfort and help heal me. She truly was amazing.