Interesting read. I can't emphasize your last point enough: "can we layoff the scatalogical and sex references?"
Every time I see a "panty-dropper" beer I want to yell at the person who named it. I would love to see the homebrewing community grow, and more women interested in brewing, but the macho attitudes ensure only women with the thickest skin will endure.
I don't name my beers, but I don't take them anywhere to show them off.