honestly haven't tasted any difference though in pouring everything from the kettle vs minimizing trub.
I think it's mostly something that homebrewers worry about when they are looking for something new to worry about.
Well, being new at homebrewing I guess I'm a little worried about my 2nd batch not finishing the way I would like it to.
You certainly won't hurt anything by passing your wort through a strainer, just don't go crazy trying to leave everything behind.
If I recall correctly, the BasicBrewing Radio link above found slightly more hop flavor in the beers that were pitched with all the trub. I partcipated in that experiment and compared a batch split in half, with crystal clear wort in one fermentor and all the trub in a second. The resultant beers were virtually indistinguishable.
This is off topic, but, frankly, there are bigger fish to fry, especialy as a new brewer, and you may have already tackled these problems, but:
For a big beer like that, are you growing up enough yeast? Are you aerating sufficiently? Are you controlling fermentation temperatures?