Wow, I'm honestly amazed at the quality and quantity of information obtained in thus one post.
I believe the schedule outlined by morticaixavier along with the advice given by a10t2 and the other contributors will lend itself to promising first batch.
Brew day is on December 9th and I will update when appropriate.
A word of caution: As the others have said you are going to have a hard time getting an extract beer this big to attenuate properly (you would have a hard time with an all grain beer as well, but you will especially have a hard time with an extract due to a number of different reasons, most notably extract is less fermehtable than all grain). Be sure you subsititute a fair amount of sugar for the extract, this will help with the attenuation. You may be able to go as high as 20%, maybe even 25%.
If the yeast sputter out and the beer stops fermentation early you will be in grave danger of bottle bombs and a beer this big could be potentially dangerous should those bottles start popping.
Finally, when you say a "promising first batch", I am hoping you mean a first batch for this beer, not your very first batch ever. This would be a bad first batch to learn to homebrew on.