Losing carbonation or the first pour is more foamy than the rest? There's a difference.
I doubt the first and am apt to believe the latter and honestly what you're experiencing is normal. Its due to the lines possibly being a bit warmer than the keg itself. Once the warmer beer pours foamy the rest pours fine.
You can try to add a fan into the kegerator up the tower to circulate the airflow better and more uniformly to decrease the issue.
As for the carbonation, you should still see the bubbles rise from the bottom in all the pours meaning the beer is uniformly carbonated as it should be in the same keg.