Why not just adjust based on the crush?
Too pragmatic?
Guess so. People seem more worried about gaps than crush.
Of course they are because the "gap" largely dictates the "crush", and when adjustments needs to be made you can't dial your mill to a certain "crush level" but you can dial to a specific "gap distance" between rollers. One serves as a sort of measure for the other.
Otherwise, we'd just recommend that the OP set his mill for the "optimal crush" and he'd be all set.
There are different mills. I have a 3 roll MM, the first gap is gentle to crack the grain, the and the second is where it does the more thorough milling. Then there are those that condition the malt and get more intact husks, and can mill a little tighter, and it still looks good.
How about 6 row that has a smaller grain size? Or rye, wheat berries, or golden naked oats that are smaller than barley?
The lauter screen will also have an influence on how you want the cruch to look. For my false bottom not so fine. For the round cooler with the bazooka screen I can go finer. I have a SS hose braid in the 72 quart blue cooler I can go pretty fine, maybe not at fine as Denny goes, but I wouldn't use it on the false bottom.
Like most things, it depends.