It sounds like your RO filter is over the hill. I use RO water for drinking water, coffee, and brewing. I use a handheld TDS meter, and a handheld pH meter, but usually I can tell by taste when the filter is going, and then I will verify with the TDS meter. I use a portable RO system that I screw into my kitchen tap. With a new filter, I get TDS readings of 1 or less, when the filter is going out, I start tasting it at about 100ppm, starts getting a bit nasty at about 200ppm.
EDIT: give the test strips to your kids to play with, they're pretty useless for brewing.
For the money and time, it's probably a better bet to buy RO or distilled water, but keep in mind that what is sold as distilled is usually actually RO water. And, depending on the RO system used, a lot of RO water actually has some dissolved minerals, and some has "added minerals for taste". So, if you buy bottled water, a TDS meter is still a good investment.