The "safe" way to achieve a somewhat milder hop bitterness is to adjust your room temperature measured pre-boil Wort pH to 5.1-5.2. The higher the Wort pH is leading into boil, the harsher will be the bitterness that one extracts from their hops.
The only potential snag in the ointment that I'm aware of here is that to achieve the same analytical measure of IBU's, it takes a bit more hops when entering the boil at a room temperature measured 5.1-5.2 pH than it does when entering the boil at say a room temperature measured 5.4-5.5 pH. But if the goal is milder hop nature for the same measure of IBU's as seen on the test bench, then adjusting to 5.1-5.2 pH and compensating via the addition of a bit more hops is the ticket.