I need a bit of advice. My brother isn't doing so great the last few years - he's had some financial troubles, isn't very good at taking care of his car (the most recent one had something catastrophic happen to the rear end, apparently because he drives all his cars like they're mustang 5.0 liters), and has a love/hate relationship with his job doing telemarketing.
I'm in a position where I could just give him money, but I don't want to be a crutch, I want to do something to genuinely help him out. He lives near Tulsa, so if anybody knows anyone selling a car near there, I'd be interested in hearing about it. I dunno about his current job either, I'd love to see him get something more - he has (I think) a certificate/diploma from an auto detailing school, so he can do that.
I'm just not sure what to do. Since my mom died and I moved to college I really haven't talked to him at all, but he's still my brother and I don't want him to have to go through the same stuff I did.