They are called becker disconnect cap washers... Most places seem to have them for less than 50c each, both my local homebrew stores do, as well as Northern Brewer, Williams, and Chi Company... I know this because I lost one down my deck drain, then I had another one that I messed up somehow when I put the connector back together so it stopped sealing, then the last good one I had I put in my pocket to go and check around at the hardware stores, and when I got home it was gone....