euge, sorry for being dense or ignorant, but your comment about using lethicin... you saying add that to the recipe I posted and use the blender? Thanks for the link, I'll try that one too.
btw- My wife tried the one I made last night... absolutely hated it! Her hair lost all its softness, pretty much the best way to descibe it is, it got seriously squeaky clean. I figured it washed all the buildup out of it.