I'm promoting love by telling you guys to get over your differences and see each other as brothers and not enemies. The world would be a much better place if we all did that. But there's always personal "beliefs" that blind people from realizing that.
And Phil, I agree, it does depend on what you want to see, what you're looking for. Goodness and kindness exists in us all, it's when we start focusing only on our differences when we can't see the good in others. And it's difficult to not focus on those differences, especially when they affect the lives of others negatively.