Yeah, bittering hops are definitely not all created equal. You can use software to hit, for example, 40 IBU with any hop, but the quality of bitterness is not the same. There are hops like Magnum or Warrior that give a clean bitterness, ones like Columbus or Chinook that give a coarse IPA bitterness, and mild hops like noble hops that can be used for bittering but also give subtle spicy/floral character . Gotta experiment.