I was giving this some thought this morning, and he's what I came up with. I mean no disrespect, you know I think of you likea big brother. I know you're WAY nito your beer and brewing. Your homebrew club, going to GABF, and events, not to mention brewing like a madman every weekend. Well, it occured to me, maybe if you eaae up on the throttle a little bit, for just a time, she'll feel a little better about it. Maybe she feels that your beer is getting some attention she deserves and wants? I know Holly starts getting a little snippy with me if I start pulling off double brews to many weekends in a row. That being the last thing I've done for a long time, and actually not haven gotten to brew since last February, she actaully keeps asking me when I going to, and how long till I have a brewery set up in Idaho.
Maybe I'm wrong in your case, but just a thought.